Many kind of people and many kind of thing that we never ever see in this world... What can we expect to meet? Of course most of the thing we want, but almost can't meet anything we expected...
People are always saying that people are normally separate into different group according to their style and habit. This is a truth... But sometimes we were more likely to join the other of your group, may be u not realised but this also a truth, i'll tell u after this...
First of all, in a new and strange environment, the self-defence immunne system( defined myself ) will activated to meet other as well, from the conversation, from the activities, from the behaviour, we normally are doing a job which people call it finding your group....
After a period, we finally adapted to his/her smell, his/her body odour, his/her talking patern and we automatically defined other people as your own... This is what we do normally as everyone know...
And after that, u will say i normally join with who, and the someone else are not in group with me and are not on the same trend....
Thanks to this kind of grouping, we lose and miss a lot of things in our life. The start of word to saying that i'm not group of someone, and later or never u will not find the person again.
Why people say being person should be humble?
I could understand, a person who alway think high of himself, he/she will be the clown which everyone laugh. Being arrogant mean you're not mature, it also state that u are some sort like scum of a community...
It sound bad and over right? I don't think so, let me tell u, u will have sympathetic response to it...
First, when someone show haughty manner to u, u must think that person so bad and ur heart said i never ever with ths guy again. this kind of negative response will automatically stored in your mind no matter how far u go and leave. After that, the accumulative account started to take over, when there is an action the arrogant do, u will feel tension and try to stored memory, finally anything that the person do will consider a very bad thing to u.
Lets back to the person will show u the haughty manner, he/she did not know anything about u, he/she still doing his job and continue his normal life, nothing affected him unless u go and have a ugly spat on him/her...
Ones affeted so, while another slumble so...
What for? Its unneccessary right? Man experice or feeling is the most important to take care, if u hurt someone, its really hard to recover it, ths is also why we want to take care of other too when doing something...
Since everyone cannot be perfect in doing theirs, and since we don't want to get hurt from other, and also since we don't want to miss more, we have to learn humble, don't try to form your strong stubborn group, even though u dislike it so much, the best way is by pretend it, be hypocrite...HA HA HA isn't it????
Try to and love to find different group, u will be more happier...
Monday, December 22, 2008
Saturday, October 25, 2008
My point Of View
In my point of view, i think the basicity of a mankind should be well manner....
Recently i found this title both appeared in my MUET subject of school and tuition....
Should well manner and personality opposed?
One of the personality i recently found is a bad personality which don't like so much...
An interaction is necessary in a community, but personality just make the interaction disappear.
That kind of personality really drive me crazy as well.
I would like to be a perfect chaser, if can't reach for 100%, i want also for 90%.
The case is
"That bad personality i found is when he/she have no good impression with someone, he/she rather isolated with that one. (He/she is hard to type, i change to 'it'.. ha ha)
It can do anything that as long as do not have the relation with u. Be clear, it not recognise u as well, it just look u for the first impression only..."
Wow, what can i conclude?! this really a bad attitude and behaviour that never been appear in my life. I never see an animal that so arrogant and think high of itself..
This is a death penalty for me to that kind of personality... Why?
First:
We have no prerogative to pick other and so do other to us.
Second:
Even though u have a bad impression for first, u should also behave like normal as may be u can find that not as what u think, isn't it?
Third:
Where is your permit to do so?
Fourth:
This is a simple Moral value so exist within in ourself!
Conclusion:
First of all, i don't think this is the way to show your personality!!!! But people always like to do this..
It can be say that this person this out of the normal mankind's behaviour, may be this is the special personality, but i think this personality is out of the range of human, it should be an animal.
In Malaysia, for generation nowadays, we all educated person, the single or basic moral value that we need to adopt is to be humble.
The basicity of the moral value human should belong to also it can't achieve, what can be say anymore? Unfortunately, the bad personality of this living thing appearance in the look of human being.
It already give rise a question.
How can we catagorise it? Ha Ha Ha Emm...... Let's thinking........(5 second)
A.... the smart human have created a word called barbarian for it, right? ( i know you are completely agree with ne right?) Ha Ha Ha Ha
Beside that, some of the people like to act as a macho man also which i most dislike.
For instance, they like to adding some vulgarity word in conversation, just like the people who smoking... Why this kind of unperfect would exist in this medium? Why??!!?
As one grown up, we all experience maturity, but some of the people are left behind, when they are talking, it only will make me feel disgusting and the hair of my body will just straighten..
Is 'it' mental retardation? Is 'it' moral deficiency? I also feel pity for this unperfect thing.
If u will afraid, that mean u are empty, if u really contain, that mean u are not afraid at all.
Don't act so, if u insist to be like this, u would be the crown who make us laugh at your childish.
Alright, is someone agree with my opinion? Welcome to post on your valuable comment.. Thanks..
Ha Ha Ha.. Have a nice day....
Recently i found this title both appeared in my MUET subject of school and tuition....
Should well manner and personality opposed?
One of the personality i recently found is a bad personality which don't like so much...
An interaction is necessary in a community, but personality just make the interaction disappear.
That kind of personality really drive me crazy as well.
I would like to be a perfect chaser, if can't reach for 100%, i want also for 90%.
The case is
"That bad personality i found is when he/she have no good impression with someone, he/she rather isolated with that one. (He/she is hard to type, i change to 'it'.. ha ha)
It can do anything that as long as do not have the relation with u. Be clear, it not recognise u as well, it just look u for the first impression only..."
Wow, what can i conclude?! this really a bad attitude and behaviour that never been appear in my life. I never see an animal that so arrogant and think high of itself..
This is a death penalty for me to that kind of personality... Why?
First:
We have no prerogative to pick other and so do other to us.
Second:
Even though u have a bad impression for first, u should also behave like normal as may be u can find that not as what u think, isn't it?
Third:
Where is your permit to do so?
Fourth:
This is a simple Moral value so exist within in ourself!
Conclusion:
First of all, i don't think this is the way to show your personality!!!! But people always like to do this..
It can be say that this person this out of the normal mankind's behaviour, may be this is the special personality, but i think this personality is out of the range of human, it should be an animal.
In Malaysia, for generation nowadays, we all educated person, the single or basic moral value that we need to adopt is to be humble.
The basicity of the moral value human should belong to also it can't achieve, what can be say anymore? Unfortunately, the bad personality of this living thing appearance in the look of human being.
It already give rise a question.
How can we catagorise it? Ha Ha Ha Emm...... Let's thinking........(5 second)
A.... the smart human have created a word called barbarian for it, right? ( i know you are completely agree with ne right?) Ha Ha Ha Ha
Beside that, some of the people like to act as a macho man also which i most dislike.
For instance, they like to adding some vulgarity word in conversation, just like the people who smoking... Why this kind of unperfect would exist in this medium? Why??!!?
As one grown up, we all experience maturity, but some of the people are left behind, when they are talking, it only will make me feel disgusting and the hair of my body will just straighten..
Is 'it' mental retardation? Is 'it' moral deficiency? I also feel pity for this unperfect thing.
If u will afraid, that mean u are empty, if u really contain, that mean u are not afraid at all.
Don't act so, if u insist to be like this, u would be the crown who make us laugh at your childish.
Alright, is someone agree with my opinion? Welcome to post on your valuable comment.. Thanks..
Ha Ha Ha.. Have a nice day....
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Interesting Former, Boring Later
Is every and everything are interesting former, boring later? I found quite interesting and happy with my new friends right now. But I scare that one day i will lost the interest and being boring with them..
Human nature being?
Recently, i again find a friend that it is very interesting, his name is Wei Keat who come the different hometown with me, I do not know very deep, but i can find that some characteristic of this person is good.
I'm not try to emphasize this people, i just want to made the comand on this type of character.
The character i found is that it is optimise everything and alway happy and willing to accept anyone.
Beside that, there is not special 'pattern' that a person also like to show off.
That mean its very open minded and do not care the small fault.
Wow, heavy rain and storm, i think a better stop first... Next time continue....
Human nature being?
Recently, i again find a friend that it is very interesting, his name is Wei Keat who come the different hometown with me, I do not know very deep, but i can find that some characteristic of this person is good.
I'm not try to emphasize this people, i just want to made the comand on this type of character.
The character i found is that it is optimise everything and alway happy and willing to accept anyone.
Beside that, there is not special 'pattern' that a person also like to show off.
That mean its very open minded and do not care the small fault.
Wow, heavy rain and storm, i think a better stop first... Next time continue....
Friday, August 22, 2008
New environment...New pieces of mind
I was invented into a new environment since two month ago... The new environment had made me more comfortable compare to former. In my point of view, i started to change my way of socialise, but i never change my principle because i think i had met what i was expected before.
Before this, i had bored with those 'old stuff', every point or any action they want to take i can know and so totally lost interest with them. And finally it consider as a disgusting for me... Consequently, thinking more than talking, well developing right? Ha Ha Ha
When i meet the new environment, i found the new people with the new altitude that i expect always before.
I am very happy to found the new friend, know the new personality and so many thing.
One thing i found in this environment is already proceeding to a mature level...
And now, i need to restart my role as a person again in this world.. I need to interact more, that means talking more with sincerity.
I had closed myself for several years, to restart this role, i had to learn again the social skill, may be someone else surrounding find not interest with me, i sorry i will try to do it better, I'm still in learning process to behave like a normal person again...
Just only two month, i think all these 'new stuff' already well mix from 'Thailand, Malaysia to Singapore'
And i thought this is what the maturer thinking brings....
There is nothing perfect in every matter, of course, there will be some of the unsocial 'stuff', but never mind, i thought this is only just like the trace element in human body.. Hope that it not so much affected..
This environment for me also can be say as the a surprising gift.
Because of the hesitation to make the decision, i had fall into this environment incidentally with unfortunately, sadly in initially.. Really happy... Such a 'Rebirth' for me....
Before this, i had bored with those 'old stuff', every point or any action they want to take i can know and so totally lost interest with them. And finally it consider as a disgusting for me... Consequently, thinking more than talking, well developing right? Ha Ha Ha
When i meet the new environment, i found the new people with the new altitude that i expect always before.
I am very happy to found the new friend, know the new personality and so many thing.
One thing i found in this environment is already proceeding to a mature level...
And now, i need to restart my role as a person again in this world.. I need to interact more, that means talking more with sincerity.
I had closed myself for several years, to restart this role, i had to learn again the social skill, may be someone else surrounding find not interest with me, i sorry i will try to do it better, I'm still in learning process to behave like a normal person again...
Just only two month, i think all these 'new stuff' already well mix from 'Thailand, Malaysia to Singapore'
And i thought this is what the maturer thinking brings....
There is nothing perfect in every matter, of course, there will be some of the unsocial 'stuff', but never mind, i thought this is only just like the trace element in human body.. Hope that it not so much affected..
This environment for me also can be say as the a surprising gift.
Because of the hesitation to make the decision, i had fall into this environment incidentally with unfortunately, sadly in initially.. Really happy... Such a 'Rebirth' for me....
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